To all those who say and believe that guys are assholes..

[NightHawk]

Yeah some guys are assholes and act like dicks.. but are girls any better?

Of course this is entirely subjective and general. This isn't meant to attack a gender and I'm not trying to promote male superiority (face it, we'd fall apart if we told women to stay at home and in the kitchen).

I'm ranting about the gf i'm currently with. I've told some people about the problems me and her have. It's usually the same story.. she's insecure about her looks and is always afraid i'm gonna let her go for hopes of a hotter girl (or just looking at other girls such as hooters waitresses.. yes, she'd hate that). However, at 4:30pm Saturday, she pissed me off in a whole new way.

I know i'm not the best guy when it comes to being in a relationship - just ask anyone who's talked to me while the chatroom was busy. But like a good bf, i'm completely different around her (i'm a good guy! lol and i'm not just 'acting' good. its sincere). She's just as good except that she worries about things i consider insignificant (i've been dating her for over 2 years).

We both still live at our homes. I have life easy: i live with my mom who has been a single parent. I have no sibings. She's in an aprt with her mom and 3 younger siblings (with another younger sis who's away at Univ of Southern FL i think). Her mom likes to have a social life with 2 jobs, meaning the gf of mine has to babysit her much younger siblings a lot. So when she found out today that she has to watch them again instead of seeing me, she got understandably upset. I'd go see her, but we tried that once and they wouldn't leave us alone.

So in her anger, she threw a couple of comments at me while i was tryin to console her:

1.) "i wish i had a guy who has his own place"
2.) "im glad we're going out but i feel that my other half should be financially stable i guess"

In normal conversation, she'll say like "i cant wait til next year when we can get our own place!" but now i know what she really means..

Here's more details that show why i'm pissed off:

1.) I almost always pay for her when we're out. Food, activities, even her for her gas tank sometimes cuz she usually drives.

2.) I make at most $800 a month. Take out money for necessities, I could barely afford a cheap aprt. If me and her get an aprt together, i'd never afford my next year of college. I only need one more year (minimum).

3.) She's not in school at the moment (wants to later). She has had opportunities for getting a 2nd job as a bank teller inside the grocery store she currently works at (how perfect!). The manager would even give her priority. This was a couple weeks ago and she never applied. She's not exactly rolling in dough either (i'm better off than she is, and she's complaining about me financially!?)

4.) She told me recently that she loves how I never take my anger out on her. So this is the thanks i get.

At least I know to keep my mouth shut to her and not snap back. She knows that those lines pissed me off, but i'm not retaliating. But damn that hurt..

[NightHawk]

oh she knew i was pissed, i just didnt retaliate and say anything in spite.

[Sh|nK]

dude for real, all the rest are just the same lol

[Jayne]

Dump this idiot. jfc she's a needy child.