Independence

[Seline]

People turn away from their friends and end up losing its essence. And when that happens it is a sign that something is wrong. When you're in a relationship it is important to preserve the individuality of each one, after all, one is interested in you for who you are, by their attitudes, for something to admire in you. So when your life begins to rotate only about dating, it is necessary to stop and reflect. All though this is normal at the beginning, you're in love, think of the person 24 hours a day and wants to be with her 25 ...

But when the relationship reaches a certain maturity is necessary to balance things better. People think they need to live with another, not quite. I speak from experience, believe me. I know that there are as many girls as I was: passionate who leave everything for your dating life. Forget their friends, their individuality, they lose their essence. That's where you start to get dull and even lose her beloved boyfriend for who you are so dedicated. After all, he will not want a robot, a stick that is always behind him and do not live their lives. Over time it is important to take the limelight from the handsome boyfriend and feel proud of him for what he does, and that is where you will also need to have something he can be proud of.

Have your own hobbies, listening to music you like, even if he does not like to read books, watch their TV shows. Independence in dating is something fundamental. You gotta live your life and make your relationship part of it, and not vice versa. Her boyfriend, even as you will realize is independent and that he needs space every day, because you is not just a puppet of love.

Sometimes, the reason must speak louder than sentiment. We women need to show our independence to the world, and how we do this if we are always behind our boyfriends / husbands? If instead of being ourselves, when we receive the title of "girlfriend / wife"?

I'm not saying not to love and love deeply, is not it. What I mean is that we can do it as individuals we are, and not as halves of oranges born incomplete and need to find the other half to be happy. We were born whole people! That's what we need to understand.

You can only make someone else happy when you're happy about yourself and, especially, you are only loved when you value and love yourself first.