Honestly, I can't stand my father.

[Kimberly Meadows]

He asks me what he did to deserve disrespect from me.. I should ask what he's done to earn respect. The answer to that would be absolutely nothing. He has never been there for me, he's not a man anyone should look up to, he's a bad influence, he can get downright mean if you don't jump when he says jump -_- He's never hit me, but he said if I keep back talking (which I really don't do) he said he'll probably end up slapping me one day for it. I don't say it out loud, but I know if he ever tries to slap me or spank me I'll call the cops. Spanking is for correcting a little kid, not a 17 year old girl. I want him gone, out of my life, never want to see him again. Gah! Can I really take another year of his crap?! I can't get my mom to kick him out, she says she won't be able to pay the bills because he job doesn't pay that well, but he barely contributes anyhow! She's always having to buy his cigarettes and give him money for gas, hell, the $250 he pays towards the house's monthly payment my mom probably gives back to him through frickin cigarette and gas money! I'm jealous of people who have a dad that actually spends time with them, must be pretty great.

[bent]

also, by 17 the only people who can make you feel like crap are the ones you allow to...just saying...ignore him,if he isnt physically abusive, pay him no mind and laugh at the stupid stoner, you only have a year left to deal with it...

[bent]

true that kotonashi, true that

sure hes abusive verbally, you will learn one day that he was just preparing you for the world, because believe me many many people that you wont be able to just get away from will be very very verbally abusive...and you will one day have to learn to deal with it, or just be a hermit somewhere, people arent nice, the world isnt fair, thats life, it sucks, i know, been there...jsut dont kill yourself and the world isnt so bad...you will find someplace you fit in, and surround yourself with people who arent exactly cruel to you, while you and your friends make fun of and belittle others(whether they know it or not) that is life, the circle continues, be happy that its only verbal abuse...hell when i was 5 i though being a son of a bitch was a good thing, and bi though bastard was my nickname...actually wrote that on a school paper in 2nd grade...low and behold i got in trouble for that...hmm,

what a fucked up world we live in...be glad your not in a third world country...

[Kimberly Meadows]

No, I'm not over-exaggerating. He's abusive, not physically but verbally. He makes my mom and I feel like crap. He's cheated on my mom multiple times, WHY she takes him back I don't know. He's missed a couple of my birthdays and tried pinning it on my mom, saying it's her fault, trying to make her looked like the bad guy. He's missed a Christmas. I'm my dad's only, but my mom's 4th, the youngest of them, and my sister and two brothers HATE him. He's bad enough I've had to talk to the school counselor a few times every month because I've thought about running away. He's a pot smoker and smoked it around me when I was little, he only hides it now because he thinks we're stupid and can't tell.

[bent]

hmm, maybe you are right, maybe he is an ass, maybe you are overexagerating, who knows

either way, grow up just a little, you are 17, and you have only 1 year left to deal, its almost over, the homestretch

when he breaks your nose 3 times and 4 ribs, then talk to me about it

[Kimberly Meadows]

He said I needed to set straight, and I know my dad, spanking me or slapping me would more likely be 'setting me straight'. He's said before that he didn't want to spank me when I was little because he didn't like seeing me upset(hah!) but he probably needed to start.

[Chill Pill]

haha did he even say anything about spanking you? i think freud would have something to say about this