Usually men get cold feet when it comes to commitment and marriage, while majority of the times, women look forward to a proposal. Conversely, the more women try to anchor the man, instead of moving forward, the relationships heads towards a break-up. This is because men hate the pressure and start off a relationship without much thought about the future.

If you are dating or in love, you must be pondering about how to inspire your man to commit. Actually the tact is about not letting…

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Though once considered a myth, psychologists believe that men are actually more romantic than women! As per a new survey, 27% women and 48% men fell in love at first sight.

But, you might be wondering how true it is. Well, the fact remains that men and women think differently and so communication varies. More women relate to words and prefer men saying it all out verbally while men prefer action more than words, which are usually interpreted differently. Your man may not say ‘I love…

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Divorce can not only take a toll on your emotions and your health but on the feeling of security of the whole family. It maybe uncharted path for a few days, bouts of crying and depression but life goes on. If you are looking for positive ways to improve and get back to normal life with the changed equation with your ex-spouse.

Here are a few tips to help you:

Talk with your kids about the new changes: Most fathers and mothers stay allies of the children regardless of the…

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Your personal profile is online and you have posted the best photos of yourself. Now on to the next step. Time to initiate contact with profiles of interest. I would suggest, you send them a message (through their profile on shadi.com) letting them know you are interested and would like to go to the next level of communication. Here are few guidelines that will help you initiate first communications in a great way to build a long lasting relationship.

First Impression

In online…

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The photo is where all the action begins between receiving responses or no responses. Regardless, of how much time and effort you spend on writing, polishing your profile, a good online photo is worth thousand words. Good clear pictures are attention grabber’s. Some of you are not comfortable with online posting of pictures. It really does not matter in this time and age, as majority of you have profiles on facebook, Linkedin etc.

Matchmaking process is not supposed to be a top…

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In searching for a life partner, seek guys who possess great qualities that would make them a good husband and parent. Identify ones which matter to you most and don’t settle for less. Remember the more men you meet the higher your chances of finding the right one.

True Gentleman:

Women are attracted to men who are considerate, polite and have a responsible attitude.They are attentive to woman’s needs and are good listeners. If a man is generous and kind towards strangers he…

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If you are curious to know what men find attractive about women while they are looking for a match. It’s a known fact that men are more interested in physical aspects of a woman initially and but other personality traits become more important. Generally men who want to get married are between the age of 29 to 35. They prefer women to be in the age range of 25 to 30. It’s a known fact that men are more interested in physical aspects of a woman initially but other personality traits become…

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Life is a long journey and marriage is a life-long commitment therefore while selecting a life partner make sure you search well. You will want someone who is cheerful and happy around you to make your life pleasant and worthwhile. Here are five qualities you should look for your prospective life partner.

Compatibility:

Extremely desirable trait to look for is compatibility. Being able to live together in peace and harmony. Your life partner will share your house, room and much…

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When cupid strikes, it is best to succumb to it. With the globe becoming a melting pot of cultures where people of many races, castes and religions and faith culminate in one territory (nation), they are bound to interact. Some are bound to find each other attractive. Sometimes it’s the different culture that sends a mate a dating signal. Ethnic matching is a recent phenomenon as now parents find it difficult to stop their children from interacting with children of other races. We all have…

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Many girls and boys approach matrimony with blinkers on. There is nothing like “it will never happen to me”. Anything can happen, anytime. We just need to keep our eyes and ears open and no one dare to fool us. Nevertheless, marriage fraud has disheartened, saddened, depressed and dejected many. How can one avoid getting duped in the marriage market? Marriage market being huge comes with its own set of deceptions and cons for some and a plain simple bad luck for many. Many men and women,…

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Many couples in love cannot really pinpoint what is it that makes them tick. There are so many unknown little things that one likes about each other that it cannot be put in the rule book of matrimony. But what counts in all kinds of intimate relationships is love and mutual respect, space and privacy. Couples who drift away have to deal with egos, intolerance, ambitions and attitude problems. They carry them all through their lives and never have a good relationship. Trust and faith are…

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South East Asian weddings are different from their western counterparts. When a couple of different inter-faith is exchanging wedding vows it is not possible to follow the customs of only one culture. Rituals from the host country can be incorporated to make the wedding unusual and more memorable. After all even if the rituals are diverse the meaning of wedding is the same all over the world. It is bringing two sweat hearts closer to one another. Despite traditions varying across ethnicity,…

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South East Asian weddings are different from their western counterparts. When a couple of different inter-faith is exchanging wedding vows it is not possible to follow the customs of only one culture. Rituals from the host country can be incorporated to make the wedding unusual and more memorable. After all even if the rituals are diverse the meaning of wedding is the same all over the world. It is bringing two sweat hearts closer to one another. Despite traditions varying across ethnicity,…

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This Generation is the "Lost and Wild" Generation, agree or agree?, ok now i've gone aboard the same boat as some of my seniors, it seems age'25' is in the center of " Done it all" sans "Mastery", somewhere  Between of "Im not 100% sure"  to  "This is a Piece of Cake"... u can call me a Social incompetent pedagogue... i can tell a few advices to the ones younger to me but still cant understand the theories of the seniors. I came across a situation with a…

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With the elction done and over with (thank Allah) and with partisan politics (atleast in the context of my commentary) a thing of the past, it's been a minute since I felt strongly enough to post anything one way or the other. However, in my absence, I was looking over some of the other notes I've posted, and comments left by alot of my friends, and it occurred to me that of everything I've written, the only note than NOONE commented on, was my note relating to gay marriage. This is a subject I… Continue