stuck in a jam

by jenny poo

Jun 2, 2010

Ok! I have been with this guy for two years (he is my bestfriends brother). Everything has always been kinda rocky from the very start. Well fast forward two years! In feb he told me out of the blue that he hates me, and that he never wanted to see me again. A week later i found out I was pregnant. I told his sister first, then his mom, grandma, and a few of our friends. I tried to call him saying we needed to talk, but he said we have nothing to talk about and hung up on me. His sister told me not to tell him. I decided the best thing to do was get a abortion. That way he would never find out. Well his sister got drunk one night and told him EVERYTHING! Now he is extremly angry with me and his family. I don't know what to do. Was I wrong for not telling him first?? Does he have right to be angry with everyone?
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    haggis_hunter*lilly*

    i am assuming that you have already had the abortion ?

    i dont think you were wrong or right to have had the abortion... thats your decision and know one has that right to judge you on that. i do think that mabey it wasnt the best idea to have involved his family, even if you couldnt have got a hold of him but at the end of the day (its night) whats done is done and cant be changed. if he is angry with you so be it... does it really change anythin between you guys ... you already said that the relationship was rocky from the start.... mabey its time just to leave it as it is. on him being angry with his family.... you just got to let them sort it out.
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    Jun 2, 2010

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      You should of told him before you told anyone else at all.
      And ofcourse he's gonna be pissed.
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      Jun 3, 2010

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        But anyway maybe norita's doin to much drug shit? see if she will tell you what she's doin? maybe the bicycle princess need's help? she love's herself more than you meow,, you know that.i think more then anyone on this site, so maybe to much partying is causing her to drift aimlessly . she will listen to you. something to think about. im sure norita lost al her friend's in real life to drug shit. let me know what's up?,,,you really are determind to poop her cherry's aren't ya? you must have a vinyl covered bunn's fetish. i seen your pic's makin fun of me. im not fat like norita you could at least pick a girl that resemble's me and not barbie girl. ok ill give you you're wish. go ahead and find a naughtyest pic or video of a dark hair gal wearing vinyl and post it to noritas comment's. i don't think a vinyl pic like that be easy to find so my cherry won't get popped by her;) silly kitty, probly got a whole folder full with my name on it huh?

        Jun 15, 2010