Okay, a friend of mine had a few traumatic things happen to her, and though I can be really understanding and I am very much knowing her pain. Sadly, though right now, she needs to actually grow up a bit. I can't believe she is always having a problem and needs to call me all the time about it on FB. I became rather frustrated and not come on FB or avoid the site whenever possible. She IMs and sometimes says things that are down right stupid or she plainly forgot.
She's a good person, yes, and I'm trying to be nice to her, but whenever she IMs, I'm either on Elsword or working with my fiance on a project. She is starting to drive me batty, because she gets upset that I can't always help her.
I know that when it comes to problems, I will give advice that does work, but seriously, right now I'm starting to snap at her for trying my patience. I have been talking about Rurouni Kenshin Live Action movie, and she asked if I was or ever did a cosplay from Kenshin...ummmm....YES! I yelled at her over it because seriously, she knew I did a cosplay from Samurai X which is part of the Rurouni Kenshin series, she didn't realize it until I had to remind her that a friend took my picture in the cosplay. I had dozens of pictures my friends took of me in the cosplay.
I know my friend is having a rough time and I want to be there for her, but I'm getting really tired her clinging to me consistantly online. I know she's a good friend, but right now I'm started to get really frustrated with her. Why is it that this seems to happen.
I had this happen a few years ago with a male friend of mine and considering one of my friends called it Mommy Replacement, and that my friend would come to me instead of his mother who was supposed to help. I started to tell him to stop it and he would get mad at me for telling him to stop. I started to push him away when it came to that problem and it worked a little better.
Since I have been with Lee, I'm not really having much patience with people who cling to me are a little bit is getting on my nerves. Has anyone ever had this problem...where you have friends, but when they consistantly call or bother you at times when you are busy doesn't help.
A Frustration of Mine
by Nagi Naoe
Dec 27, 2012
Okay, a friend of mine had a few traumatic things happen to her, and though I can be really understanding and I am very much knowing her pain. Sadly, though right now, she needs to actually grow up a bit. I can't believe she is always having a problem and needs to call me all the time about it on FB. I became rather frustrated and not come on FB or avoid the site whenever possible. She IMs and sometimes says things that are down right stupid or she plainly forgot.
She's a good person, yes, and I'm trying to be nice to her, but whenever she IMs, I'm either on Elsword or working with my fiance on a project. She is starting to drive me batty, because she gets upset that I can't always help her.
I know that when it comes to problems, I will give advice that does work, but seriously, right now I'm starting to snap at her for trying my patience. I have been talking about Rurouni Kenshin Live Action movie, and she asked if I was or ever did a cosplay from Kenshin...ummmm....YES! I yelled at her over it because seriously, she knew I did a cosplay from Samurai X which is part of the Rurouni Kenshin series, she didn't realize it until I had to remind her that a friend took my picture in the cosplay. I had dozens of pictures my friends took of me in the cosplay.
I know my friend is having a rough time and I want to be there for her, but I'm getting really tired her clinging to me consistantly online. I know she's a good friend, but right now I'm started to get really frustrated with her. Why is it that this seems to happen.
I had this happen a few years ago with a male friend of mine and considering one of my friends called it Mommy Replacement, and that my friend would come to me instead of his mother who was supposed to help. I started to tell him to stop it and he would get mad at me for telling him to stop. I started to push him away when it came to that problem and it worked a little better.
Since I have been with Lee, I'm not really having much patience with people who cling to me are a little bit is getting on my nerves. Has anyone ever had this problem...where you have friends, but when they consistantly call or bother you at times when you are busy doesn't help.