where do you plan to be in life?

[jason beal]

since the passing of my dad, i've been trying to find myself. what i mean is i have no friends and started collge and was kicked out for months and now since ive been back. ive been thinking who am i and where am i going. iam lost it sucks. i would like to carry on the family name but first you need a gal. i have no idea where am at or were iam going. how did you guys know where you are going? could you give me some advice please?

[Meow]

[Nosferaazar]

Don't feel too bad about not knowing where you're going in life - people get to be 35 and still don't know what the hell they're doing. It's rather normal. Now, if you were, say, in your 40s and still had no idea what to do, then there'd be an actual point of concern.

I can't imagine losing a parent so early in life. No doubt that makes life even more confusing and lonely at your age. The best thing you can do for yourself is acquire a group of friends and mentors who can provide emotional support and help guide you when you need it.

If you're in college now, I wouldn't suggest putting energy into finding a girl to marry just yet. I mean, if you happen to meet her while pursuing a degree, then fantastic. But, to exert extra energy into a love life ... that'll challenge your focus and drive in school more than you need. It's best to let that stuff happen when it happens, and just focus on school while you're in it.

Just remember that you're not alone; people are always searching for themselves and what they want out of life. There's a lot of company in the loneliness - just gotta seek it out from the right people.

[ISAAH06]

I plan to be on earth, probably Australia. That's where.

[iaininlondon]

Jason, I suggest you don't get stuck in the Aussie outback in your future