what are your thouhs on sex be4 you get hitched?

[jason beal]

i was in health class and we are talking about sex this girl found out that ive never had sex and it started a huge talk in class and not i feel like iam a out cast. so i do i make people think that iam the same person just ive never done it

[One Love]

Of course you feel like an outcast when that's all anyone ever thinks about lol but there's nothing wrong with you being a virgin. You've got plenty of time to change that! Personally, I would never get married without having sex with that person first. Let's face it, a marriage is not going to be successful if you're not sexually compatible.

[░▓░]

Virginity is overrated and the desire for sex is the most base purpose of any organism.

But why would you ever discuss your sexual history in class? If you brought it up then expect it to be criticized. I just don't think it is a very professional subject to discuss in the classroom.

[qwertygirl]

Do it when you want to.

If that means you wait until marriage, awesome. If that means you do it tomorrow, great. Either way, make it what you want it to be. Own your decision and stop thinking about what you think it says about you to others.

There is nothing more worthy of respect then making informed and personal decisions about your own sexuality regardless of what you think is expected of you.

[WeepInIndigo]

Honestly, I never understood why there is such a social stigma surrounding sex. I understand that it's a basic need, enjoyable, etc. but at the end of the day it is solely the individual's preference. Don't base your private life around the acceptability of others.

[Voyager Rigel]

People need to be less concerned with the thought of a sexless life before marriage, and start worrying about the dismal possibility of a sexless life after marriage.
Just throwing that out there, folks. :)

It's healthy to have sex.
Having sex does healthy things to your body, not having sex does unhealthy things to your body.
We are made to crave sex.

I think there is nothing wrong about finding someone abnormal who chooses to ignore those facts.

If you want to and can't, that's unfortunate but fair.
If you want to but won't, chances are that's mislead.
If you don't want to, that's unhealthy.

[PJAAI4]

Better to wait until after.

[Meow]

this is my cock, there are many, but this one is mine....... because peaches come from a can, a man puts in as many as he can

[Jade West]

Not liking ice cream makes you an outcast; not having sex before marriage makes you downcast--Confucious

[ISAAH06]

Considering you wan't to talk about it in class, and you also want to talk about it online. Shows that you're the one who has a problem with it...

Truth be known...
This so called huge talk was just everyone laughing at you for 15 seconds and then you were forgotten about.
But its stuck in your head cuz you dont actually want to be that way. You just cant get yourself any.

[jason beal]

this for meow and jade west: why are you two so hatefull and mean? iam mean here aim shareing my heart and soul with everybody and ... it just hurts me when people jagde me for not doing it. i want to cause want to see what all the talk is about but no gal wil ever give me the time of day. and since iam over 30 i feel like it will never happen. i just want to fit in.

Jade West said:

Not liking ice cream makes you an outcast; not having sex before marriage makes you downcast--Confucious

[ISAAH06]

Baa hahahaha see now the whole picture starts to show its true colours.
You're not a loser cuz you can't get yourself any....
You can't get yourself any because you're a loser