Please help - relationship advice

[Sally]

My boyfriend of 6 months has previously been married and his wife left him. He said he gave her everything and she threw it all in his face.
Now he has told me he is wary of getting involved too much with someone else i.e. me.
What should I do?

[Jess]

You should remind him that you aren't that girl. If he's not willing to risk the potential hurt, he might be missing out on a great relationship.

[Patricia]

First of all, I truly hope he's completely divorced now. I've heard some men whine and behave like victims, in order to hook up with other girls but turns out they can never leave the 'bitchy wife' they have...
That being said, if he's actually divorced. His former wife is one thing and you are a completely different person, tell him to grow up and be a real man.

[WaterFish22]

If you really like the guy you should take thing slow and don't get involved with things to fast. There still a lot of things plan out. I'm guessing he doesn't want to repeat the same thing over again with you.

If you don't thing it's going to work out then maybe you should start look for someone else and tell him that you can't wait for him to make up his mind on what he wants to do.

[Bec J]

remind him shes not you BUT also its only been six months give the boy some time to trust you!

[Calistar17]

That's exactly what I was going to say..give him time!

He should have given himself time before he started another relationship, but you can't help life sometimes.

[Bec J]

Its only been 6 months..give him time to trust you...your going to need a lot of patience with this one. Dont bring it up, let him come to you and dont nag him about commitment because you will push him away.

If he is a good guy and worth it then go for it!

[DinaKillsAgain]

there is no reason to be dreading on your past if your happy with what you have right now. No one is the same unless he is doing something wrong that he needs to change.

[Apple Jay]

The whole “ he's wary" sounds to me that he dosent want to be with you 100% he wants you around For him. Not for him to be with You b/c he wants You.