My Friend has a problem

[The Emo Kid]

hey guys my friend has a problem ok he loves his girlfriend and they have been happily dating for six months well there is these other girls that like him right and they want him to break up with her but he won't do it cause he loves her and doesn't want to break her heart but these other girls keep pushing him and well he don't want to be mean because they say they love him and well he cares for them because he is just that kind of person but he don't know what to do so if i could get some help shed some light on me so i can help him out that would be really great.

[Chelsey]

If he loves her, why in the hell would he even think about being with other girls? Some love right there.

[Chris James]

ALL guys think about being with other girls. Constantly. Yes, even YOUR man. All the time. He sees a girl on TV, he wants to hit that. The waitress at your favorite resturant...yep. Hell, even girls standing in line at the freakin bus stop will turn a guys head. It's just how we're built. Doesn't mean you don't love your spouse. Just means that you notice women you're attacted to. Heck, even cheating doesn't mean you don't love your spouse. The human brain is capable of so much more than just the black and white morality that try unsucessfully to apply to society.

[Shawn Anthony Daniels]

if ur friend luvs his gf then he will not let other girls influence him 2 dump her because they make false pleas of love

[Aaron]

Love isn't just a feeling...Love, between two people, is a connection between heart, mind and soul. This connection, between the two, will forever be there even if the relationship crumbles. I Love You are extremely powerful words and, quite honestly, I think your friend needs to do some searching because it doesn't sound like he's in love. If he does love his girlfriend and the relationship they have built together then he needs to ask himself something. He needs to ask himself: "If I really love my girlfriend then why have I disrespected her and our relationship?"

When someone lets you love them it's one of the greatest honors there is because they have given their heart to you for safe keeping. With all of the fights and misunderstandings you have to wrap your entire self around this heart to keep it safe. It's not easy, but your partner has put their trust in your hands and when I Love You comes out of your mouth then you have accepted the privilege of being the caretaker for their heart. Honestly, after reading what I've just said do you think your friend has been true to his girlfriend, their relationship and his own heart? You're his friend and, hopefully, you know the truth.

[Chris James]

If you're not married, you're single. Enjoy as many partners as you can before you finally sell your soul for a spouse, 2.5 kids and a fuckin mini-van in the suburbs.

[Leah Rachelle❤]

He doesn't really love her if he wants to break up with her for someone else.

[The_Almighty_Stan]

This thread is so emo. I feel like cutting my wrists now.

[DinaKillsAgain]

EVERYONE GETS THEIR HEART BROKEN SOONER OR LATER. plus if their high school young then that is a whole different story. But to be a dick and break it off because other hoes then no. Tell them bitches to fudge off.

[Patricia]

Life is always about choices, we have to ponder the benefits both for the person and the other party (and not the selfish way: me,me,me). If you say he is in love with his girlfriend and that she loves him back in the same happy way, well I would definitely stick to my significant other, it's extremely hard to find someone who's worth it these days. Now, why do these girls insist so hard on him leaving her? Might there be a secret they do not dare to reveal?
Otherwise, I'd simply tell them: f**k off. Simple as that.

[Patricia]

Plus, if he's doubtful because 'he cares for them because he's that kind of person' then something might be wrong there, no?

[Melissa O'Quinn]

he needs to stay with his girlfriend, or he needs to take a break from everything and decide what he wants because it would hurt me more to know my man is torn instead of completley happy with me

[Chris James]

That's incredibly naive.