My boyfriend fancies other girls

[Sally]

I've been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months.

The problem is that when I'm with him and there's music videos on the television, he goes on and on about how much he fancies celebrities and goes on about how hot they look in their videos.

I know I have to be realistic and accept that there are girls out there that he will see as better looking than me and that he will fancy visually more than he fancies me.

But I don't think it's appropriate for him to make this so obvious in front of me.

It really upsets me. I really like him and I'm sleeping with him but I feel like I'm not good enough for him.

The other thing is he sometimes goes to the strippers with his friends. I don't like the idea of that either. He's in a relationship with me but he wants to go eye up other girls naked.

The above is the only problems I have with him. Does anyone have any advice for me?

Thanks.

[trisha clark]

well girl better talk to him take the proper timing just u and him in a quite place and time ask him how he really feels about u, be honest to him and tell him how u feel about his actions....know from his acts and answers if he really loves u or is it cooling down, find a way to keep the love burning go on dates together or visit other places just u and him....if u feel that given the effort to keep ur relationship in good terms he still acts the same...time to make decisions...hard but maybe better decisions....best of luck....;)

[Master Psycho (PSYCHO4BBW)]

Im MARRIED for 10 years and its all good, let him be, if you hold him too tight, then he will most likely cheat cuz thats like teasing a baby with a sucker... If you see that he is getting numbers from women, then you tell him "Hey! I'll let this slip through once, but if I find this shit again, you'll have to hit the road jack, and dont come back no mo...". I like to look at other womens butts, thats me, and my wife knows it... The big butt women shop at WALMART, and i crave it every time we go, I look around, but have to pay attention to wife too... Thats just me though...

[Stephanie Petty]

I have this problem with my husband. Let him know how it makes you feel and if he really cares about you, he will stop making the comments. As for him going to strip clubs- I've not had to deal with that problem, thankfully.

[Jayne]

But I don't think it's appropriate for him to make this so obvious in front of me.

Exactly.

People are responding by saying "ITS NATURAL ITS NORMAL TO LOOK" - yeah no shit it's natural.
There is however something called subtlety.

Be blunt with his ass. Tell him you don't appreciate the full-out oggling.

And don't worry girl- you're not the only lady out in the real world who has a problem with her guy going to strip clubs... don't let the righteous comments sway you into thinking you're being too hard on him or that you're insecure.
It's how YOU feel. You don't have to change your comfort level to keep someone in your life.
Maybe after you're talked with him you'll be more lax about it. Hell go with him or a group of girlfriends and have fun on your own time <3

TBH I don't know anyone who goes to 'em anymore these days... with the magic of free porn, a lot of guys are turning away from those joints.