My boyfriend fancies other girls

[Sally]

I've been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months.

The problem is that when I'm with him and there's music videos on the television, he goes on and on about how much he fancies celebrities and goes on about how hot they look in their videos.

I know I have to be realistic and accept that there are girls out there that he will see as better looking than me and that he will fancy visually more than he fancies me.

But I don't think it's appropriate for him to make this so obvious in front of me.

It really upsets me. I really like him and I'm sleeping with him but I feel like I'm not good enough for him.

The other thing is he sometimes goes to the strippers with his friends. I don't like the idea of that either. He's in a relationship with me but he wants to go eye up other girls naked.

The above is the only problems I have with him. Does anyone have any advice for me?

Thanks.

[O.C.]

well how about this .... maybe when he say ohh look how sexy this star is he want you to dress like her around him !! or something in that area ! like do ur hare like her or whatever !!
mmmm why don't u talk to him and tell him that what he does hurt u ?!!
and about the strippers ...... well maybe he is not taking ur relationship seriously ! so just talk to him !!
and about him checking out other women .. well there's nothing u can do but talking to him about it ... i my self if i'm in a relationship i don't do that ... even if i'm not i think that's disrespectful for women and not appropriate .... anyway .. i hope that my marks would help u in the future :D

[Bec J]

Boys will ALWAYS go to strippers..this is normal (well here in Australia it is) they arent allowed to touch and everyone looks but i would tell him you have a problem with the other thing. If hes making you feel uncomfortable TELL HIM! He may not even realise it. Men can be pretty thick at the best of times. Tell him you feel like your not good enough when he comments constantly on other girls..if you dont say something he wont know

[Calistar17]

And I think you know as well as I do that if he did love you. You would feel better than anything, when you are with him.

Listen to the man. He knows things!

[Mercury Bird]

You are so right.
Like I've learned from Sex and the City, "he's just not that into you!"

[Patricia]

I think you should talk to him and tell him how that makes you feel, after all he's your boyfriend, not a fuck buddy.
Now, men.. I used to think Mexican men where like that... well that only makes me even more hopeless on finding a guy who does not fancy to 'check up all the menu'.
Let's face it, we all do that from time to time, but respect is very important and he should show you some by avoiding the temptation of looking at other girls, just as we do for them, fair enough, right?

[bent]

well, it is like this, everyone looks at others, this is going to happen it is how it is, we are all human, and nature rules us, but, he really should not be disrespectful about it, just my opinion, and going to the strip clubs, well, for some relationships this isnt a big deal, for others it is, maybe you should go with him, or let him know how you feel about it, dont know that it will help, but it is all you can do really

[Jesse Stevens]

Well.. I've been dating my boyfriend for about 7 months and yeah he sometimes talks about hot celebrities. but don't let that get to you. They're celebritied, he's never gunna get them. lol Celebrities are supposed to be called hot lol.
But if he's saying things like that about people you know you should talk to him about it.

And the strip club thing, tell him how ya feel about it. Maybe he'll stop going?
Don't feel like you're not good enough because if you weren't, he wouldnt still be with you (:

[Axel N.]

it's fine, so long as the strippers don't let him feel them up or give him a happy ending...and stars....everybody fancies celebrities, everybody wants to fuck at least one of em XD, it's in the norm to go crazy over them

[Abel Christian (Jaberwocky)]

WOW one case of immagary wham bam thank you mam... ha ha you sould stay with him to laugh at him :P

[MEOW]

go fly a kite you nasty cruntmonger

[Abel Christian (Jaberwocky)]

Is that the latest video game or is that a style ?????? oh of course i know were he got the word. he listens to the voices inside his head.

[reckline]

wow, no offense, but you are insecure. the strip club thing i get. I've been a couple times and it is a waste of money. I would go with giving him a taste of his own medicine, but that's me. he might watch hoochies in videos, but he's with you, and i'd imagine he's happy with that. don't be so down on yourself, you are a person and deserve better than that, even from yourself.