Kevin's Rant on Relationships and the venomous clinger.

[Kevin P (NiveK4164)]

I do.....I think its total bullshit for us to expect so much exclusive attention from out partner that we get absolutley pissed off if he/she thinks someone else is attractive....what the hell....You arent the only guy/girl this person thinks is attractive and 9 times out of 10 they are gonna see lots of people even more attractive than you... Lust is a bitch,ladies....stop getting mad at us for admiring a nice rack,pretty face,or plump ass because trust me alot of the time we have no control over it...it just happens. and believe it or not...it is possible for a guy to sleep with one girl but still be in love with you so stop saying "if you loved me you wouldnt have slept with her!" It really has nothing to do with you...its lust most of the time....even though it may feel like betrayal to you. Dont get me wrong i do understand where youre coming from but I think its wrong to want someone to be that emotionally glued to you that they arent allowed to glance or talk about what they find attractive while youre around.

 

 

For the record.....I think MOST of us dont even want to get married(But for those who do I'm happy for you)...I think they do it because thats what society tells us we should do("This is what a Real American Family is" type of deal. Being with the same person for an extended nunber of years makes my flesh crawl just thinking about it. Growing old together to me doesnt even sound attractive.

[Dani]

i thought you died?

[Kevin P (NiveK4164)]

lol...you wish:)

[PhonyMcRingRing]

True monogamy is rare in the animal kingdom. It's nonexistent in the primates. The species that do it are mostly birds, and when they pair-bond they lose all sexual interest in other partners permanently, even if their partner dies. All genetic, phenotypical, and social-behavioral markers indicate that our species does not posses the basic architecture for monogamy...