jealous sister

[foxxirider]

my younger sister is 48.. she has been jealous of me since childhood..she has copied every thing i have done..to the point of divorcing her husband shortly after i divorced mine..it goes way deeper than that and would take too much time to write it all here n now.. the only time she calls me is when she wants something..so i dont answer her anymore..can any of you relate to this? if so, i could use some pointers as im all out of ideas.

[DinaKillsAgain]

my sister tires so hard to be a different person but she ends up looking the same as everyone. Me, I became my own person and did, said, what I wanted to do. I cut ties with her because she is stupid, its obvious, and to make it wrose she has a daughter. She got mad when I borrowed $20 and paid her back the next day. I don't give her money or help her but try to encourage her to get a job, go to college and stop waiting for her fat lazy boyfriend to become a rockstar. I tried and I am done. Let her go her way and as always I will continue mine.

[redheadfury]

I can and can't. I don't have any siblings, but I have an aunt that was similar with her sisters. Basically, your sister seems like she has some identity issues. She needs professional help. I think counselling would be the best bet. But, it won't work if she doesn't notice there is a problem. She can't help herself if she doesn't know what she's doing to herself and other people around her. Talking to her would be the first step. Prepare yourself for an outburst and drama, but talking to her about it means you did your part. You can step away until she gets better.