Guys: Could you date a "Touch me not"? (Someone who would rather touch her partner, but don't like to be touched herself, and maybe eaven keep her clothes on)

[missopposite]

.....?

I think in some way I am that person in the first place. If we both were, it wouldn't work very well. Or at all.

[WaterFish22]

Yeah, I could date a Touch me not person if it was a trade off for other things I really liked about them.  What I'm saying is it better be worth my time or I will end the relationship early because, I would hate to be dating so long and never get anything out of the relationship in the long run.  I would however like to know why they don't want me to touch them and why they would rather touch me instead. I would also like to know if they plan on never getting touched by their partner ever or they would rather not get touched for a while until they were ready.  

[Konnor]

No... I have to touch... That's why no one takes me to museums anymore

[23d2stpiuv9yi]

I'm answering this even though I'm female.

 

And no, I couldn't. Because there would obviously be something really fucked up with that person, and if they're not willing to go to therapy or something and figure out why they're so fucked up then I'm not dealing with it. What if they're a psychopath? Or have latent serial killer tendencies? You never know with that shit. Sex related stuff is tied to some messed up psychiatric problems.

[WaterFish22]

What happens if they are supper sweet to you and totally like to do everything you like to do. The only problem is they have an sexually transmitted disease so that's the reason why they don't like to touch in a relationship?

 

I never thought about the person having serial killer tendencies, but I figured that if you asked them enough questions you would eventually figure out who they are and why they have a problem with touching in a relationship.  

[23d2stpiuv9yi]

Well if they have AIDS that's different. Though I honestly don't know if I could deal with that either. Not being able to touch my partner coz I could die?? That would be awful. But yeah, if the person would talk about why they didn't want to be touched and wanted to work through it, then that would be fine. But if they're not willing to talk about it then fuck that. I assume everyone's a serial killer until I have proof otherwise.