Disappearing act instead of actual break up?

[ballur]

Has this ever happened to you? Have you ever done it?

[░▓░]

Yeah but it wasn't anything really important either.

[Look2TheSky]

Yes I've had it happen to me. It puts u in a state of limbo and unknowing what to do next. After enough time u come to accept it for what it is. The person wanted out or could not handle the relationship. For me in the end it finally resulted in a break up.

[Danina]

the disappearing act yes. it wasn't all that serious but i still like getting some kind of closure you know? i like to be honest with a guy too so i let them know if i'm not interested anymore.

[Beth aka corvina]

Yeah, I'm guilty of it. Not after a long-term relationship, of course. However, if I'd go on one or two dates and just not think it's worth it, then I kinda stopped talking. Funny thing is, every time I've done this, the guy has too, so yeah. No one got hurt. Things just kinda fizzled out.

[ballur]

That's pretty much where I stood and how I felt when it happened to me. I think even when you think you can't be surprised by people still manage it. I just wish people that you'd thought you meant a lot to would have at least decency to say something. That happened to me an I just felt floored. It's a surreal feeling that's for sure, but you move on as does life. What else can you do right?

Look2TheSky said:

Yes I've had it happen to me. It puts u in a state of limbo and unknowing what to do next. After enough time u come to accept it for what it is. The person wanted out or could not handle the relationship. For me in the end it finally resulted in a break up.

[ballur]

I've had that happen and with that it's not a real big thing. It was just a gradual thing especially if you really didn't click.

Beth aka corvina said:

Yeah, I'm guilty of it. Not after a long-term relationship, of course. However, if I'd go on one or two dates and just not think it's worth it, then I kinda stopped talking. Funny thing is, every time I've done this, the guy has too, so yeah. No one got hurt. Things just kinda fizzled out.

[Curious George]

'Disappearing act' pretty much says it all. What's more to say? Just sayin.

Closure = long drawn out emotional everybody going ape shit that ends up with all involved being pissed off. Closure is the given opportunity for the woman to fire back at the man in an attempt to unload, repay, wound, injure, justify, blast, criticize, and all else. Guys don't want to deal with that. The action says it all.

[iaininlondon]

In the UK it's called desertion and is quite rightly grounds for a divorce

[ISAAH06]

"quite rightly grounds for a divorce" - You fucking goose... If someone fucks off on ya, isn't divorcing them giving them a better way out. I'm still waiting for you to use that cock sucking mouth of yours to say something that makes sense

iaininlondon said:

In the UK it's called desertion and is quite rightly grounds for a divorce

[iaininlondon]

She only flinches on every 10th insertion

[Curious George]

Gotta be married first.... ffs 

Making assumptions again I see.

iaininlondon said:

In the UK it's called desertion and is quite rightly grounds for a divorce

[Knickletits]

When I was in Texas I had a lot of random hookups, and I definitely pulled the disappearing act when it came to them wanting to START a relationship. I have a lot of butthurt texts from depressed Marines that just want someone to love them saved in my phone.