Couples and Arguments

[Rich]

How do you resolve your arguments? Do you argue it out? Do you postpone it for a better time? Do you bring the matter into casual conversation? What are some effective ways that you and your partner resolve your problems?

[Stephanie Cox]

s e x

[Rich]

you're awesome

[xxAprilLunaxx]

My boyfreind or whatever he is I dont know anymore apparantly cant resolve them he lies then walks away and leaves me hanging wondering whats going on.

[isaah06]

If you cant decide whether he's "a boyfriend" or a "whatever"......... He isn't a "boyfriend"

[Rich]

I agree.

[Rich]

Interesting. I like that but only certain people can do that.

[Rich]

I'm thinking about it. Doesn't that build resentment between you? What happens exactly (after the 30 min)?

[Rich]

I bought one when I was twelve and was too lazy to actually put it up lmao. I still have it.

[Norita]

i usually avoid conflict and arguments because, in the past, i used to blow little things up to be something even more. the whole "holding it in too long will make someone explode" thing... applied to me. i let a lot of the little things go but i don't forget them. when i was younger i used to throw all of them out into the argument, the only reason it would start is something as small as him calling someone random out for nothing they could help out, but i've learned that some things just need to be let go... you can't just explode on someone months after something little that bothers you happens. granted not many people do the exploding randomly thing on people but =s. since i've grown up a bit, i think, i've learned to let someone gradually know something pisses me off besides yelling at them, that they leave pee on the toilet seat or put the toilet paper in the wrong way or tip people poorly.

IT MIGHT JUST BE ME. but fuck that's the most serious post bolt has ever seen me.

[Rich]

haha that's cool. I'm a dude, but I think I would like to abide by this with a male twist :P

[isaah06]

My girl and I dont argue or fight over anything that actually matters. We'll let each other know about whatever the problem is, the moment it comes up. We dont let it go and get bigger before we say anything.
Because it is something that matters (to at least to one of us). And because we do love each other and both want to make each other happy, and more importantly want whats best for us as a family. We will come up with whats best for us as a family. And we will stay on the same page untill we get it.

When it comes to petty shit. Its usually settled laughing, drinking, smoking and by eventually fucking the living daylights out of each other untill one of us is happy enough to say I dont give a fuck about that any more, and lets the other have their way (usually me) as long as I can continue to have my way and use her as my sexual toy.

[Rich]

Lmao. Cool, cool. That's good if you have the capacity to do that. I can't name one girlfriend that I've had who can actually stop and think about a problem before she's reaching for my neck. Do you think it's hard to find someone that can do that?