Bullying.....

[haggis_ muncher*liz*{OriOn}]

You wouldn't know this..from the way i am now...but i was a victim of bullying for 8 years from the age of 7 up till 15..i put up with the name calling the punching hitting spitting sometimes....grabbing my bag and throwing it over my head...ruining my school work...hiding my belongings...that was just in infant school...when it progressed to high school..i threw myself into my work so i suppose i should be thankful in some way to those mindless little fucks that stole my childhood because i wouldnt be who i am now or where i am if it wasnt for them...it ended when i snapped...not because teachers or parents intervened...and put a stop to it...it was me...walking down the corridor to home economics...being punched in the back in front of maybe a hundred diff kids all pointing and laughing at me...i snapped turned round and hit that bitch harder than i ever hit anyone in my life to this day and everyone of them stopped right there n then n i never had no more trouble...but what this is about really is im enraged to find my little bro is now a victim and my dad is trying in vain to put a stop to it...why do kids have to be so cruel...dont they realise what there doing...im now 26 and still when i think about what was done to me my blood boils...one saving grace i suppose is i saw the main culprit of my bullying about 18 mths ago when i was visiting my dad....and found she was a smack head...her hair was lank shed lost teeth her skin was disgusting...and she was living out of the homeless hostel....maybe i should have felt pity for her...but i didnt...i just thought "look who came off better" and i cant help that...the damage her and her friends did i dont think is ever going to be repaired...i just hope dad can put a stop to it for my bro...has anyone else been a victim? or knew/knows a victim and felt helpless to do anything about it????all the hype about reporting it n shit...yea its good in theory but has anyone else "told" on there bullys only to find you ended up worse off?????

[SirReal Killer]

well i got picked on from a young age due to my grades in school. i pretty much always excelled and was really shy and quiet. i guess other kids thought that i would just be a pushover...however it only took me a couple of times to serve up ass beatings and they stopped. I was never afraid to bust caps so to speak...im not saying that you were, but i never took shit right off the top. however, what really sucked for me personally is that my parents were always moving me around. so i'd leave one spot where the local kids knew not to fuck with me pretty much and than i'd have to prove myself all over again. consequently i had to finish HS in a secondary school due to getting kicked out of reg HS for really hurting this one guy. he tried to bully me and figured he could cuz i was quiet and didn't know anyone. what he didn't realize is that i was about to break his nose in 3 spots from one strike. it felt awesome. if i had it do over again id break it in 4 spots. ;) there was one great thing that did come from that one fight in particular though. My little sister happened to finish HS at the school i got booted from. she was in junior high and it was conjoined to the HS. When i stomped him, it happened to be on the floor of the building where all of the junior high kids were (my locker was down there) and ALL of my sister's graduating class pretty much saw me go UFC on him. She got a free ride through HS so to speak and no one ever fucked with her, in fact they self admitted that they were scared shitless too (In fear of me LOL). What's funny is, I've only been in like 3 fights my entire adult life. When I was a kid i got in probably 20 or more. kids are just fucked up. period. they dont use their heads for shit, they just act without thinking. tell your little bro to fucking beat some ass. im not condoning violence here, but no one respects a pussy. im not saying he is one, but even as a kid we always respected a another kid if he held is own and lost. put him in martial arts or make him start wrestling (anything), someone has to build his confidence somehow, hes going to need these skills at some point in life. its a dog eat dog world.

[haggis_ muncher*liz*{OriOn}]

yea i agree i was that "pussy" in school i was totally too scared to do anything until i was pushed too far...ive told dad to get him into something...hes signed him up for kickboxing...he used to do tae qwon do but the guy who ran the class was in some kind of car accident so that put paid to that...good for you tho stickin up for yourself...i wish id done it alot sooner than i did cuz it solved everything.

[SirReal Killer]

as a kid i took korean kenpo karate. tae kwon do isn't really practical against a brawler anyway so it's probably best that he doesn't take that. i highly recommend wing chun kung fu...its all about making your opponent fight himself! lol

[Val]

i was never bullied in school, but my little brother always had it hard, people always wanted him to be more like me and wouldnt quite picking on him. one day he was in gym and this kid kept bouncing a basketball off of him, that was apparently the day he'd had enough and decided to beat the living daylights out of the kid breaking his nose, jaw and 2 ribs, he got expelled for the year but never had another problem. see my grandfather was an army ranger and my uncle was a navy seal so we learned quite a few ways to defend ourselves growing up. that was the first day his bullies learned that he was capable of defending himself and after that he started to get more respect and even made some really good friends.

[haggis_ muncher*liz*{OriOn}]

yea....and as for him getting expelled...whats up with that???? i was put on class report for hitting one of my bullies...im sorry but you put up with it for so long n noone does anything and as soon as you do something to defend yourself YOUR the one ends up in trouble ffs...great justice

[haggis_ muncher*liz*{OriOn}]

true tho stick up for yourself n u get respect...all these do gooders sayin tell a parent or teacher...its crap...they wanna live in the real world for a few days n see what its really all about

[SirReal Killer]

Lol @ tell a teacher or parent. Obviously these people have never been to jail where becoming a bitch is a reality. Just make sure that you're little bro understands that he doesn't start fights, he finishes them....

[Lyn]

I use to get bullied and named called also! However, in elementary school I was such a tom boy that I tried to actually beat the boys up and arm wrestle them! Was too funny. I think that when your younger you always get bullied. The worse for me though is being in middle school and having girls say that I was ugly and it really messed with my self-confidence until I was a senior in high school. And it still messes with me from time to time. Mental bullying is probably the worse there is.

[iSeeDumbPeople]

in grade 9 this kid was walking behind me and kept trying to trip me.
i pushed him towards the door and started kicking and hitting him with my math book (the book has like 300 pages). kid never touched me again. then i ran after his friend who was laughing.
i enjoyed hitting and kicking him though, hopefully it did some brain damage.