boyfriend+national guard= :(

[Chelsey]

so. I have been dating my boyfriend for just over 2 years. He is a senior and will be graduating. He had always told me that he was going to go to a community college and then transfer to a 4 year college. But, now, he has been talking about going into the national guard. I found out that he went and talked to a recruiter and he didnt tell me..I really dont think I would stay with him if he went to the NG...I love him so much..but I am not one to wait around. I don't want to sit around and wait for him. Is it selfish of me to think like that? Even though i love him..and we are planning to be together..Is that normal? Am I selfish?

[Val]

have you considered the possibility of attending college somewhere close to where he gets stationed?