Better to have loved and lost?

[An(Drew) J. Conley]

"It's better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all."

I'm sure all of you have heard this quote at one time or another.

The people that haven't loved are usually the ones that utter this monstrosity.
...and the ones that have want to shoot the one's that say it in the head.

What does everyone think? Is it better to have loved and lost than not loving at all?

[leesha624]

this is a better quote... its better to have loved and lost than have to deal with a psycho for the rest of your life

[MidnightL]

I think it would be better to have not loved at all. Less painful.

[Kharmah]

everything is a learning experience. those experiences help you grow as a person so I think it's better to have loved and lost.

I was in this really nasty 3 year relationship once upon a time and if I hadn't grown from that I wouldn't be happily engaged with my fiance today. I had learned a lot of things about myself. And became a stronger person.

[Kristi Miles]

NOT better to have loved and lost. that sh*t hurts. but i believe accoriding to everyones idividual situations in life on this, is how they would respond. in my case, id rather have not loved at all. to avoid the heartache.

[Patricia]

Yeah, I agree with that quote, only.. another heartbreak will kill me!