an ex who talks about revenge

[Audrey]

so i dumped my "boyfriend" a few weeks ago. i gotta admit, it was out of the blue and very abrupt. i'm his first love. he was devastated. he stalked me at my home, sent me flowers and cried in front of me. he's never had a GF before. he's very desperate.

anyway, he's 32 i'm 25. i dumped him cos i find him very immature and insensitive. arrogant, too. i don't think we have any chemistry at all. i guess i accepted him way too quickly.

so now, he wants revenge for changing my mind about accepting him. he said he wants to make me cry. he wants to hurt me back. the other day he kept saying "i know what to do", then said "get back! KILL you!"...but added "just kidding (plus smiley face)" at the end of the text message. that's really freaky.

he stalked my FB and kept posting "killing" messages. i think he holds way too much grudge. i felt it when we hung out a while ago for his 32nd b'day. he said he's still trying to figure out how best to get back at me. he had wanted to order a cake and get it on my face as revenge. i don't think that'll satisfy him. i think he wants more. i think he's capable of hurting me.

he said he wants to "repair the relationship" as we remain friends. i think he's still hoping for a chance at "love". i don't think it's love when he had the intention of wanting to get back at me. i don't think he's sincere. he wants revenge. and he wants to see me pay BIG time. i have a horrible feeling about this guy. but i can't just ignore him. cos i feel like he can snap anytime. the type that would go on a rampage.

[redheadfury]

You need to block this guy online, everywhere, and change your phone number. If he keeps showing up at your house, report it to the police.

[andrew h]

He sounds awesome! my kinda guy! He might just be your soul mate and I think you should try to get back together with him because you're getting older and your looks are fading so you probably won't ever do any better than him.

[xxAprilLunaxx]

This man is one word and one word only Abusive! You need to cut the ties and dump him abusive men feed off of your insecurities and make you think you cant leave them. Its going to be like getting over a drug addiction its going to be hard but the best thing really is to cut all ties and never let him into your life again. I see nothing but red flags when it comes to this guy and my instincts tell me he is bad news you may end up seriously hurt or dead. Call the cops change your number and your social networking emails and passwords block him completly because if you dont serious things could happen to you.