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an ex who talks about revenge
so i dumped my "boyfriend" a few weeks ago. i gotta admit, it was out of the blue and very abrupt. i'm his first love. he was devastated. he stalked me at my home, sent me flowers and cried in front of me. he's never had a GF before. he's very desperate.
anyway, he's 32 i'm 25. i dumped him cos i find him very immature and insensitive. arrogant, too. i don't think we have any chemistry at all. i guess i accepted him way too quickly.
so now, he wants revenge for changing my mind about accepting him. he said he wants to make me cry. he wants to hurt me back. the other day he kept saying "i know what to do", then said "get back! KILL you!"...but added "just kidding (plus smiley face)" at the end of the text message. that's really freaky.
he stalked my FB and kept posting "killing" messages. i think he holds way too much grudge. i felt it when we hung out a while ago for his 32nd b'day. he said he's still trying to figure out how best to get back at me. he had wanted to order a cake and get it on my face as revenge. i don't think that'll satisfy him. i think he wants more. i think he's capable of hurting me.
he said he wants to "repair the relationship" as we remain friends. i think he's still hoping for a chance at "love". i don't think it's love when he had the intention of wanting to get back at me. i don't think he's sincere. he wants revenge. and he wants to see me pay BIG time. i have a horrible feeling about this guy. but i can't just ignore him. cos i feel like he can snap anytime. the type that would go on a rampage.
anyway, he's 32 i'm 25. i dumped him cos i find him very immature and insensitive. arrogant, too. i don't think we have any chemistry at all. i guess i accepted him way too quickly.
so now, he wants revenge for changing my mind about accepting him. he said he wants to make me cry. he wants to hurt me back. the other day he kept saying "i know what to do", then said "get back! KILL you!"...but added "just kidding (plus smiley face)" at the end of the text message. that's really freaky.
he stalked my FB and kept posting "killing" messages. i think he holds way too much grudge. i felt it when we hung out a while ago for his 32nd b'day. he said he's still trying to figure out how best to get back at me. he had wanted to order a cake and get it on my face as revenge. i don't think that'll satisfy him. i think he wants more. i think he's capable of hurting me.
he said he wants to "repair the relationship" as we remain friends. i think he's still hoping for a chance at "love". i don't think it's love when he had the intention of wanting to get back at me. i don't think he's sincere. he wants revenge. and he wants to see me pay BIG time. i have a horrible feeling about this guy. but i can't just ignore him. cos i feel like he can snap anytime. the type that would go on a rampage.
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Permalink Reply by Audrey on
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yeah, i should do that. but it's easier said than done. he's the type who wants to "drill" you with questions until he gets a desired answer....very manipulative and calculative, too. like for instance, if i told him "i'm not ready for a relationship" he wants to know why. where he went wrong. how he could improve. but then it always goes back to him wanting us to get back together. he will NEVER listen. all he knows is his own opinions and views.
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k thanks for reading and for your advice. i really appreciate it. i'm feeling very restless. i know i don't even know you but i do appreciate your feedback.
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Permalink Reply by Blue Bird on -
you're his first love and he's 32? That is a bit of a red flag there.
I'm concerned for your safety. as Lexi said keep documentation. I think you already have enough - plenty enough- to get a restraining order.
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yeah...maybe i got the wrong dude. anyway, i met him last night. and talked. he seemed ok. i don't know if it's just an act. gave me till monday to make up my mind if i could give him another chance to be my BF.
he told me the murder threats were jokes. he told me not to take the FB comments seriously. dunno if that's just an act.
anyway, i still won't be his GF cos he's not a really good BF. and i'm a lesbian. wont be fair for the both of us. im only with him to try to prove something and it turned out to be a nightmare. ugh.
thanks for your insight though. appreciate it much.
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Permalink Reply by Blue Bird on
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No balanced guy would make a joke like that. Please take care of yourself. :(
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Permalink Reply by Shawn Scarborough on -
It sounds like he's obsessed with you. Be very careful on how you handle this. One little thing may just set him off......
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Permalink Reply by Melinda Chen on
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i had this feeling before. as i use him to forget my love. so he wanted to revenge. so, i think you can tell someone whom he cared mostly, and ask help from him/her. also, u can go other places first. time would heal him...good luck to solve this... take it easy...
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Permalink Reply by isaah06 on
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Get an intervention order on him before anything has the chance to happen. Dont live in fear and wait untill its too late. Anyone that cared in the slightest wouldn't even make any threats. It might cost you half a day in court, but at least then the police have the power to keep him away from you, and stop any IT stalking or txts.
Dont wait for something to happen.
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Permalink Reply by Shawn Scarborough on
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